Don't know what to do with my "crush"

2022.01.19 01:59 mid4u Don't know what to do with my "crush"

So I found out this guy at my uni, whom I had multiple classes with, had very similar interests and tastes as I do, which is rare for the people around me. For some strange reason, I felt a really strong connection to him, even though we had never talk to each-other and felt that we were almost the same person. I'm a very shy, vulnerable and overall lonely boy and I felt he was too and that we were going through similar stuff. It took a lot of strength for me to go and talk to him, and the outcome was disappointing as he barely spoke to me and I felt like I was dragging the words out of him, always asking the questions, like I was the only one interested. Nonetheless, I thought that maybe he was more reserved than me so maybe with a few more conversations he would eventually open up. I texted him first (I had his number because we had an assignment together) and started a conversation. In the beginning, it wasn't that smooth because he constantly left it on culs-de-sac and I was the one carrying it all along, like he didn't know what to say most of the times. I thought this would fade in time, yet it hasn't. And I haven't had a couple ever in my 19 years of existence so I don't know how to flirt or make a move with him without being creepy or without him feeling like I'm crossing boundaries. We've only been able to talk through chat because we are watching online classes due to the fucking pandemic and he has tell me he's very different in person as in chat he is "unintentionally formal". Since we started talking, we have only met once (we could've seen each-other more but he constantly cancelled it because of a documentary he was a part of, yes, we are majoring in film and fun fact he dislikes it haha) and that day it was very different than how we talk in chat, it felt like it was finally flowing and we were bonding, he's so sweet and gentle and funny. But, otherwise, he maintains a certain distance with me and I'm very eager to bound and have a deep connection and be friends and maybe even something more. There comes another problem: I don't know how I feel about him, I don't know if I truly like him or at this point I'm just infatuated, fixated in the idea that I like him because he are so similar, like it's truly insane how much we are alike. And because I have never been in a relationship I don't know how to make up my feelings for a boy, let alone towards him. So, the three main questions are: how do I know if I love him? How do I flirt with him without it feeling invasive? And, should I stop talking to him because of his distance? I have some hope this semester because we are leaving fully the online classes and going back to the campus so there's a high possibility we'll see each-other more often and spend more time together. Mind you, this has being going around the last 8 months. I truly don't know what to do, my best friend tells me I'm just infatuated and due to his unresponsiveness, I should've ghosted him along time ago. But I've always think that she doesn't truly understand how rare is for a gay couple to spark and that maybe he's like that because, just like me, he hasn't had anyone romantically prior in his life so we are clumsily figuring out what to do with the other one. Please help, at this point it has being going around for too long and I need a resolution like Aaliyah. I'll add info if required! Thanks ::)
So I found out this guy at my uni, whom I had multiple classes with, had very similar interests and tastes as I do, which is rare for the people around me. For some strange reason, I felt a really strong connection to him, even though we had never talk to each-other and felt that we were almost the same person. I'm a very shy, vulnerable and overall lonely boy and I felt he was too and that we were going through similar stuff. It took a lot of strength for me to go and talk to him, and the outcome was disappointing as he barely spoke to me and I felt like I was dragging the words out of him, always asking the questions, like I was the only one interested. Nonetheless, I thought that maybe he was more reserved than me so maybe with a few more conversations he would eventually open up. I texted him first (I had his number because we had an assignment together) and started a conversation. In the beginning, it wasn't that smooth because he constantly left it on culs-de-sac and I was the one carrying it all along, like he didn't know what to say most of the times. I thought this would fade in time, yet it hasn't. And I haven't had a couple ever in my 19 years of existence so I don't know how to flirt or make a move with him without being creepy or without him feeling like I'm crossing boundaries. We've only been able to talk through chat because we are watching online classes due to the fucking pandemic and he has tell me he's very different in person as in chat he is "unintentionally formal". Since we started talking, we have only met once (we could've seen each-other more but he constantly cancelled it because of a documentary he was a part of, yes, we are majoring in film and fun fact he dislikes it haha) and that day it was very different than how we talk in chat, it felt like it was finally flowing and we were bonding, he's so sweet and gentle and funny. But, otherwise, he maintains a certain distance with me and I'm very eager to bound and have a deep connection and be friends and maybe even something more. There comes another problem: I don't know how I feel about him, I don't know if I truly like him or at this point I'm just infatuated, fixated in the idea that I like him because he are so similar, like it's truly insane how much we are alike. And because I have never been in a relationship I don't know how to make up my feelings for a boy, let alone towards him. So, the three main questions are: how do I know if I love him? How do I flirt with him without it feeling invasive? And, should I stop talking to him because of his distance? I have some hope this semester because we are leaving fully the online classes and going back to the campus so there's a high possibility we'll see each-other more often and spend more time together. Mind you, this has being going around the last 8 months. I truly don't know what to do, my best friend tells me I'm just infatuated and due to his unresponsiveness, I should've ghosted him along time ago. But I've always think that she doesn't truly understand how rare is for a gay couple to spark and that maybe he's like that because, just like me, he hasn't had anyone romantically prior in his life so we are clumsily figuring out what to do with the other one. Please help, at this point it has being going around for too long and I need a resolution like Aaliyah. I'll add info if required! Thanks ::)
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2022.01.19 01:59 Eminklings I really have no idea what I'm doing.

I am so stuck right now.
I moved to uni for journalism in September and immediately realised the course wasn't for me. This was kind of a massive blow because I've always seen myself being a writer of some sort and journalism was a bit of a dream job so it was a really harsh reality to face .
Anyway, tried to sort myself out by trying to swap to a law course but they said the course was full and I'd have to do so next year. Okay, well I spiralled a little bit but grappled and got control of myself, am sticking out this year so I don't become aimless and have applied to change to law next year.
Uni is overhyped and I'm not super enjoying it. It's pretty lonely but to be totally honest I don't mind being alone all that much, so if I loved my course it would be fine. But I don't love my course. And now I'm on winter break I'm reflecting. Do I really want to do law? I like academic subjects and it's a solid and fairly open degree but shit I don't think I want to even be a lawyer, I have no experience with law, so what the fuck is the point of jumping headfirst into this.
I have a massive issue with romantisizing things, convincing myself it'll be fine, and then breaking apart when it's not.
I don't have any idea. I don't have any idea who I actually I am. I don't know what I like and don't like, I have no hobbies, the only thing I've ever found myself in was writing and journalism didn't work out and an English degree feels so useless to me that I wouldn't be able to be motivated by it.
I feel like a void of a person. No hobbies, few friends, no idea of myself no real personality, what in fucks name am I doing?
I'm so tempted to drop out and do an apparenticeship or some shit but I don't even know what I'd do an apprenticeship in, that's how lost I am. If I hated my journalism course so much there's no guarantee I'd love an English related job. I'm having an existential crisis at 18 for fucks sake, I need to find something I'm good at but all these opportunities that once excited me are now terrifying because I've realised I am one of those people who always had potential, or always fooled people into thinking I did, and never bothered to use it because I didn't know how to apply myself and I couldn't be fucked to try and figure it out.
The alternative is moving away for a bit, getting away, maybe out of England because it is always sad and rainy and depressing here, and working some part time, hospitality or retail job or something, just to ground myself, calm myself, figure myself out and get some roots. But realistically I'm not sure what that would solve, I'm not really in the financial situation to do that right now, and I'm scared I'd just get stuck in that dead end job. Plus, I've already signed my house contract for next year which was stupid of me but I panicked and don't know if I'd be able to get out of it, now.
I really don't even feel like I have any sort of future and I can't talk to my parents about this really because my mother told my dad about my plans to swap course and he is now so insanely, painfully excited about the idea of me doing law because I was so insufferably argumentative as a child, and he thinks I'd be a good lawyer. I'm not so sure.
I don't know what I'm doing with any aspect of my life. Help.
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2022.01.19 01:59 foodisprettyneato Does anyone know the movie I'm thinking of???

So I remember from when I was a kid in the late 90s or early 2000s, I saw a movie that kind of had a sandlot/stand by me vibe. And I don't remember much of it. But I remember a scene where a bunch of kids are swimming in a pool. And another scene where they accidentally launch their dad's rocket into space cause the dad worked for nasa or something. Does anybody know what movie I'm thinking of? Anytime I try talking to people about it or looking it up, no one knows what it is and I feel like it's some sort of fever dream. Am I crazy?
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2022.01.19 01:59 TheToeNinja I lost my first ever diamond haul and I think my wife might divorce me.....

Me and my wife are late to Minecraft, as tonight marks both of our fourth night ever playing the game. We are having loads of fun just exploring and learning the game.
We ended up getting the java edition and running a server for us that we run off of her computer whenever we are ready to play. We are playing survival mode at the default difficulty.
As of now we are hording resources in order to build a village and our player home in the form of a castle or something like one. I've spent the last two days terraforming and my wife has spent her game time exploring and mining this GIANT cavern maybe 100-200 blocks from where we have decided to build.
But tonight...we had a mishap.
It all started on a high note when she exclaimed to me "Omg, you have to see this." At the very bottom of this cave we found a wooden abandoned mine and the first corridor we went down had an entire room maybe 15x15 of amethyst. We immediately started to collect what we could then realized there was what we think was a spider spawn point, so we retreated, geared up, and came back the next day.
Keep in mind she's been exploring the surrounding areas for two irl days.
Upon returning we fight skeletons, zombies, weird colored spiders, and creepers. Each time we fight through one of the mobs we kill the spawn point and find a chest, and several diamonds. Up to this point I had never found diamonds and she found only a couple random ones. Being an avid Bethesda fan my Skyrim/Fallout instincts kicked in: KILL EVERYTHING, LOOT EVERYTHING. I took the mine cart tracks, the chests themselves, the carts, everything we found we took. There was even quite a bit of red stone and some gold.
With our inventories filled to the brim we started heading home. Then, it happened, the start of a disaster.
We saw a zombie villager.
We had been talking about building our own village outside our castle but hadn't even started to think about the logistics yet. I read an article about curing villagers and giving them a bed, so I exclaimed: "BABE!!! A zombie villager!!!!! Let's lure him home and cure him!!!!!" We started up out of the cave while fighting off a creeper and skeletons. I went ahead to see if it was night and it was. The moon was directly overhead. I proceeded to build a quick hut to store the villager because we don't have the brewing stand yet. She lured him in and right as she started to come out of the impromptu cave....
I accidentally right clicked too soon.....I placed a block in the doorway....in her way.... and the zombie killed her. She dropped all her loot..... All of it. Strike #1. Without having realized her demise I broke down the block again to try and help her out. (it was morning at this point and the other zombies were on fire.) He started into the sunlight so i stepped into the hut and locked myself in. I was then promptly killed.
We re-spawned, made him a name tag, and opened up a window to look in.
NONE OF OUR STUFF WAS THERE!!!!!!
THE ZOMBIE VILLAGER PICKED IT UP!
I started googling how to fix this and found many sources that said, "kill the villager to get your armor back." My wife had managed to scavenge a really nice enchanted armor set during her caving exploits. I read that the servers save every 5 minutes, so I forced a save from the command line and killed the villager hoping he would drop the loot........We earnestly peered into the cave and saw....
Nothing....He dropped nothing. Strike #2.
Then we crashed the server and reloaded the game, because obviously that didn't prove useful. I was beginning to wonder if the zombie villager was even worth it. I literally stated this out loud to my wife, to which she replied, "Well, it has to be now. That's all we've got."
When we loaded back in and my wife checked the cave she saw nothing but stone.
The zombie villager was still dead. Strike #3.
Now not only was our haul lost forever, but we had also lost the zombie villager - the only semblance of value left from our long and strenuous cave dive.
She insisted quite sternly that she needed to close the game and go to bed. I followed shortly after.
All we have left is this story. No diamonds, no loot, no villager. Hopefully I can convince her to not leave me lol.
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Após isso, passei entender as pessoas que se entopem de bomba e se explodem no intuito de levar o maximo de pessoas com elas.

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